Excess care cripples the inner strength of the cared person.
Reason is simple. Suppose I am caring guy, so I would like to provide as much
care as possible to my loved one, many times eliminating the room for risk
taking by her. Such actions, over time, prove hazardous for the cared person,
as she loses the skill of taking decisions and being responsible for her decisions.
It is also a form of slavery.
Indian Society is full of numerous such families. Females are
treated as objects of sympathy and care, starting within home. They hardly participate
in decision making chores and mostly are advised. They are dependent on male
members or elderly women, who try to play maximum safe. So to buy a pencil/grocery,
a girl would consult within the family and may be her brother or father would
buy it for her. One should understand that small things like these are ground
bearers to face the real world tomorrow. Depriving girls of such initial
opportunities, in the name of protection and too much care, obstructs gradual building
of inner courage and could be a plausible reason of their fragile confidence. There
is little stress situation and females panic, look helpless, seeking a helping
hand.
We all admire and praise a bold girl, but simultaneously one
should also look at the attributes that led her grow like that. So, care should
be of constructivist nature which brothers, sisters, husbands, wives, boyfriends,
girlfriends, fathers, mothers and all responsible adults should understand. Excess
care is Poison!
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